I have enjoyed teaching the course Gracious Girls, and am blessed to know it is being taught in many states and countries. God has blessed this course over and again. Below is a group from Bakersfield two years ago. Today as I visit that church again and again I have the joy and privilege of watching these young women grow into lovely adults. I thought it time to show you again a group of young women growing up to be lovely ladies. God is good.
GENERAL TIDBITS OF ETIQUETTE
Never try to teach your man.
Good manners touches every aspect of our lives.
Always be on time.
Never use toothpicks at the table.
Eat from the outside in.
Drink bottom up.
Always place napkin on lap. Never flag waving.
Never wipe nose with cloth napkin.
Put your utensil down when taking a drink. Place the utensil across the place
Never swing utensil around.
When leaving the table place napkin unfolded on the table.
When leaving but returning, place napkin folded in chair.
Place utensils on plate when finished in a 12 o’clock position.
Never place utensil back on table after using.
Don’t try to clear the table and stack plates; the waiter/server will do this.
Carefully watch guest, when plate empty, remove it.
Introduction; always say the oldest person name first, or most important person or woman’s name first.
Sit straight in you chair with your back against the back of the chair.
Walk with small steps – about the size of your shoe.
Hold head up and straight. Look others in the eyes.
Careful with longer table clothes.
Always wash hands and see that hair isn’t in face.
Place unused hand in your lap.
Watch the hostess, never do anything or touch anything until she does.
Remember as a hostess, guest are watching.
Bread and butter plate always on left.
Bread pinched in bites them buttered.
It is proper for all to extend the hand in greeting.
Enhancing hospitality and entertaining knowledge, allows one to enjoy and feel confident in any setting.
“It isn’t so much what’s on the table that matters as what’s on the chairs.” W.S. Gilbert, English Playwright